How To Coax A Russian Woman Into Your Life!

Russian women are the new fascination for men in the West. They have a beauty that is quite exceptional, wonderful eyes and a good sense of style. Many men are interested in Russian women because they value the qualities that these women have as part of their culture.

Let me explain. Russian women under the Soviet regime were treated as equals to men. Therefore they were required to do hard physical work, as much as men were. But in the home they were definitely not treated as equals; they have to do all the housework and care of the home. The men however are very dominating. They really do "rule the roost" and are very limited in their sensitivity to women's needs.

So, in Russian, women are used to being submissive and docile, working hard, and they are also very maternal. In Russia if a husband and wife divorce, then the children will always go with the mother. Because Russian moms have 100% of the care of the children when the couples are together, they have a very close bond with the children.

So, culturally they have many attributes that Western men are interested in. Another thing is, they tend to take care of themselves very well. High heels, hair done, beautiful clothes - this is just an ordinary day for a Russian girl. Style is vitally important to them and they love to look good. No surprise then, that they attract the attention of Western men.

But what's in it for the Russian women?

Russian women see that life in the West means more freedom. They want to be treated as equals. They want to be loved and respected - well what woman doesn't want that? But in the west, women are treated much better than in Russia.

There are fairly strict cultural rules for marriage in Russia, girls should be married at an early age. If a Russian girl is out of her teens then she is considerably less attractive to Russian men. The same is true if she has had a previous relationship and has children; Russian men look down on providing for another mans child.

However in the West it is common for women in their twenties to get married for the first time. Western men do not think twice about taking on another mans child, particularly in the man is totally out of the picture and has no contact with the child or mom.

Overall, Russian women have the entire package for Western men, and they bring light and love to many a mans heart.

Dating a Woman From China

Chinese girls are some of the most beautiful women in the world. They are petite, healthy, honest and have values that men from around the world want in a wife. Here are a few tips when dating a woman from China.

1) Ask a lot of questions After you have met your online love it's important to ask lots of questions to get to know her better. She will appreciate your questions because you are showing an interest in her and her life. How many brothers or sisters does she have? Do they get along well? This may give you a clue to what her likes and dislikes are without asking her directly. Tell her about your daily routine so she can get a feel for what life may be like when you get together.

2) Make time for her schedule Remember that in North America there is 12 hours difference from your time to hers. It is a good idea to plan the best time to call so you are not calling to early in the morning. I had the habit of doing this and my wife is not a morning person. I did adjust my routine so that she was considered. When I first met Yuxia, she was working 2 jobs so it was tough to get her at home.

3) Vary the type of communication Make things interesting by using different types of communication. In the beginning of our relationship, Meimei and I used to email each other a lot. I found out later that she was actually paying a translator to translate our emails at $10.00 per email. I was emailing her every day. So she was investing $300 a month to talk to me those first few months. After I went to meet her in July of 2006, we started talking on Yahoo Messenger with web cam and voice. That was nice to actually see her. I was able to teach her English this way too. It's also cheaper because all you need is an internet connection and a computer. Also don't forget to include a hand written letter. You'll need it when she goes for her visa interview. Save all communication too for proof of relationship.

4) About sending gifts on special occasions A good idea is to do some research and find out about the holidays in China. Send her some gifts on her special days and she will remember it forever. Some important holidays are Chinese New Year, Spring Festival, Mid Autumn Festival. I sent my Meimei flowers on Valentines Day. No one ever sent her flowers before.

She later thought that I had wasted my money though because the flowers were wilted after a week.

So basically try and make the process as natural as possible, knowing that some day your efforts will be rewarded Things will not always go smoothly, but if you prepare while she is away, it will make her transition and yours a lot easier.