Wednesday, April 20, 2011

How to Keep a Long Distance Love Alive

Whether you are using online dating to meet and flirt with someone attractive or are more interested in building a lasting relationship of love, romance or marriage, you and your partner will need to know how to keep a long distance love alive.

Relationships are hard work whether in a dating situation or not.This is especially true when you add the factor of a long distance between the two of you. Things can become even more complicated. However, with the use of the internet the distance is bridged a bit better. Worldwide online dating is becoming more popular.

Long distance relationships can be challenging whether you are a single looking for someone special or single parents miles away from one another connecting on a more intimate level. These types of relationships take a bit more work when it comes to communication, understanding and compromise more so than traditional relationships. Some people do not think it will work. However, this is true of many local relationships as well.

However, with some well thought out planning and a little extra effort on both parts, long distance romances can work. There are of course, benefits of having such a relationship, since you know that you are lucky to have someone on the other end of the line who is willing to go the distance with you. This prevents you from feeling all alone in the world without a companion.

Your long distance relationships should involve two people though miles apart find interest in one another and deeply care about each other. Love can grow in such situations. However, it is the type of relationship that can test the level of love from either of the couple. Using the only tools available to you which are your word you can keep the lines of communication open. You can create the type of relationship you want to build and then work to maintain it.

The hardest part is dealing with the distance between you. However, there are some things you can do together. For instance, you can play cards and other online games together. You can both rent the same movie and start it at the same time, while talking on the phone and discussing it or discussing it later by phone or email. You can create a list of things to do together as well as making and sending each other gifts or posting cards and sending e-Cards to one another.

Communication is the most important factor in making a long distance relationship successful. You both need to feel like you are a part of each others life. You can do this by using emails, webcams and digital camera photos. There is a measure of intimacy and seduction in hearing the voice of the one you care for. No communication means, no relationship whether you are talking with family and friends or searching for foreign brides.

You and your partner can make long distance relationships work by committing yourselves to it. Whether it is by hand written letters, emails or telephone you need to commit to communicating. This is the key to making any relationship work.

Any relationship is on the verge of crumbling if there is no honesty or trust. When you consider an online long distance relationship, you and your partner must be committed to keeping promises even if you are miles apart.

2 comments:

  1. i started out with ldr's, and I'm proud to say that i am very happily married.
    to add to this great blog. depending on how much you share you love with your partner, a marriage shouldn't ever be entered into immediately, and in ldr's the time you have waiting for each other make you know your partner even better, a marriage after that is like a scientist finally solving a decades' long problem. i must admit that it would have been so good for me if not for cheap international calls from mobile to mobile as i had financial problems for a significant period in my relationship.
    a possitive attitude is what helped me to this stage.

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  2. I enjoyed reading your post. It is very informative and useful tips. Really long distance relationship is very challenging for both partners. You need trust to make your relationship still alive.

    relationships advice

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