Saturday, April 16, 2011

Is Long Distance Like the Movie 'Going the Distance'?

So what is a long-distance relationship? You might experience it during your transition to high school to college. Maybe when you're dating a junior when you're a senior in high school. Then you have to go to college and deal with a relationship with a high school kid. It is a hard thing to deal with, you might have put your trust somewhere else while you are away. You then start worrying or blaming whatever happens, maybe when you don't call back or when they don't text back. Sometimes long-distance can lead to disaster.

But sometimes, it's the best thing that can happen in your lifetime. When you have complete trust in someone you like or even love, it's the best feeling. You know why? You have nothing to worry about when you are away from them because you know and they know, that nothing will happen. They won't lose feelings or either will you, it's great to have complete trust.

Don't be discouraged when you have fights. All couples have fights and have decisions to make, having it long-distance is just harder. So find a system you both can use, maybe take turns visiting each other or something. Just make a plan and everything will be okay.

There are both bad and good things in a relationship, just because you are having a long-distance, don't think ahead of yourself. You know what you can do and what they can do so go with your feeling. But know what is to come, it gets lonely that you know you have someone that isn't there. Think about it for a second and make sure what you are getting yourself into. I don't mean think really fast, you should see the options and all the other things then when you know it's right, go with what you want. Have fun!

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