Making a Long Distance Relationship Work for the Long Term

Have you heard repeatedly that long distance relations don't work? Are you currently in a relationship where miles separate the both of you from being together? Want some of the best advice on how to make your long distance relationship work? With some practical advice and a willing to commit you can make any relationship work, even those where space separates you.

There is no denying that relationships carried over a considerable time and space can be extremely difficult. Its human nature to want to spend as much time as possible together and the fact of the matter is that there is only so much a letter, email, phone call can do. If you happen to be in a long distance relationship or are intending to get involved in one then there are a few important points to consider. What do you intend for the both of you in the future? How often will you get to see your partner? Questions like these need to be answered as early as possible to give yourself the best chance of having success in a relationship for the both of you.

Read on for some top tips on getting a through a relationship separated by distance.

Rule number 1 - Know what you both want in the end

With a relationship separated by space and time it's important to know where you are heading. Having a partner that lives locally is totally different to that of one half ways across the world. What's the point in having a relationship if you don't know where it's going? This is especially true of distant relationships. If you can't answer this simple question then what's the point of carrying on? Simply take things less seriously and see it as a fling, that's your only choice.

Stay involved in the real world

New partners like to spend every waking hour talking and spending time together. With a long distance relationship this is reflected in phone calls, video chat, MSN and other social services. Having a relationship like this can sometimes lead you to being unsociable in the long-term which isn't good for your wellbeing or health. Remember that you have a social life before you get involved in such a relationship and if you are already in one and fail to pay attention to those around you then it's time you made a change, don't you think? Strike a balance and everything will be well.

Spend quality time together

Couples that are in a relationship sometimes tend to take for granted the time they spend together as they live so near to each other. Whenever the both of you meet make sure the time spent is worthwhile and memorable, and don't forget to share with each other how you feel as well as discuss what you both want in the future.

Everything in life needs a plan, without one you are setting yourself up for doom and gloom.

Those were my top tips on succeeding with a long distance relationship. Follow them closely and stick to the plan and everything will work out fine. Trust me!