There is no need to rake up high phone bills or overuse the internet for chatting. Still how is it possible to be in a long distance relationship with poles apart?
The first rule for a lasting relationship over a long distance is to gain someone's trust. You will be aiming in thin air if there is no trust between you and your partner. Otherwise, it will just be a simple relation that lasted as long as the bubble on the water.
Communication is very important. It makes no difference if you are using a webcam to see the person physically. In long distance relations, the physical attraction comes in the second part when you two decide to meet. The first part is gaining the trust which comes only through communication like chatting or voice calling.
They say attitude is everything. Your attitude too matters a lot. Are you with your boyfriend or girlfriend just casually or are you serious? Some are there just to pass their time while some are really serious. Once this is ascertained then you know where you stand and also how far to pursue this long distance relationship. Obviously if things work out, it's the bonus.
There are some people who have never met the person but entered a very healthy long distance relationship. You may wonder how all this evolved. It may be hard to understand but it's true. It's the positive approach that makes the difference.
Remember, a long distance relationship is never boring. There is always the excitement of visualizing your partner (if you haven't seen him or her on webcam). The suggestion is, even if you have the facility don't use the webcam in your early days. Let the excitement remain and see how beautiful the world is.
Take up tasks and visualize what you are doing it with each other. Enter a world of virtual reality. Watch TV, go to the movies, talk about the day's happenings and see what magic this sort of interaction does to your relationship.
It needs no mentioning that sending gifts is another great idea. But bring excitement by sending gifts to postage addresses if possible and use normal paper letters.
Small things will take your long distance relationship to a higher level.
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