Most men and woman after they break up, still want to be very good friends with their ex, I don't mind this approach because it may eradicate any resentment they may have after a break...
However how good of a friend they want to be should be entirely up to them, I would suggest being just good friends and talk to each other from time to time, even doing it long distance. There may be an opportunity for them to get back together or there may not.
Since it's a long distance relationship or friendship, you almost have to be a little realistic about whether you can get back together or not, because it will not be that easy.
Nevertheless you can at least be friends and talk on the phone and share some things. But to have a good long distance relationship or a friendship after a break up, you pretty much have to trust each other and be somewhat honest with each other.
Most mistakes that I see women make is that, they let their emotions run wild and get angry, when the guy says he's going to call and doesn't call, so she tries to find a way to get even with him.
Most mistakes that guys make is that they say they will do something, like call her even at specific time, but they don't do it, and that's not good either.
However I really want to address the mistake that women make because it seems to be a little bit more serious, not letting your emotions get the best of you, to the point where you're angry and start insulting the guy to try to get even. In some friendships it might work, because some guys are very strange and sometimes need a woman to scream at him. Nevertheless, for the most part, it probably will not work.
The reason why this will not work is that, most guys want to be admired and not be screamed at. They want to be the hero that a woman praises all the time. So ladies if you want a good friendship or relationship especially a long distance one, you need to keep it cool and praise the guy for the good things that he's doing.
For the guy, you need to learn more about keeping your word, especially in a long distant friendship or relationship. Keeping your word may mean everything to her, because you guys are so far away and can't see each other face to face.
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