Maintaining a long distance relationship is a challenge and making it work is a harder challenge. Most long distance relationships fail to work as this type of relationship involves much complication and asks for more trust, compromise and understanding. Moreover, as the couple lives apart from each other physically they cannot be for each other in times of need. This construes the biggest hurdle for this kind of relationship. However, there are cases where long distance relationship has worked successfully for two mature individuals and they had their own story that kept the relationship alive.
Here are some essential tips for you if you and your sweetheart are committed to such a kind of relationship. First let me cover the pitfalls that destroy any type of relationship and for relationships that are maintained over a distance they matter more.
1. Insecurity: This kind of relationship requires long levels of trust and you need to believe in your partner in terms of words. So if you struggle with insecure feelings and cannot trust what you cannot see you should not indulge is such a relationship.
2. Suspicion- An extension of insecurity is suspicion. Mostly this is an innate characteristic which is fluxed by imagination and do not have any reasonable explanation. So if you do not have confidence in a partner whom you cannot see all the time you are not a person to have such a relationship.
3. Faithfulness- My partner cannot see what in I am doing so I can have a 'fling' with someone for some time. Temptation is quite casual in long distance relationship. If you cannot extend faith to your partner who cannot see you either why should you ask for such a relationship?
If you are really forward to have a long distance relationship this are the three hurdles which you must cope up with to make it work out. Question yourself and reply yourself honestly, you will know what you are actually looking for.
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