Hello Everyone!
Today I'm going to talk about making long distance relationships easier.
How many of you have actually been in a long distance relationship? I certainly have, and let me tell you that they are no walk in the park.
They take time and dedication, and for the most part a lot of commitment on your part (and hopefully your partner's too!)
As someone who has been in multiple long distance relationships, I can tell you that each one is uniquely different.
The following are my best tips to you to consider as you meet new love interests across the Internet highway. They should definitely help toward making long distance relationships easier for you:
1. Make sure that are not only cute, but have substance too.
This will make the long distance relationship a whole lot easier, because you will have someone to talk to. Of course, we all want to be dating a looker, but if you really want the relationship to last, you will want the person to have a great personality too. And their personality all depends on your own personal interests too.
Should they be funny? Sarcastic? Daring? There are so many different combinations. Also, keep in mind that some people who make look hot in their profile have absolutely no personality whatsoever. The only thing you can do is begin the conversation and see where it goes.
2. Make time for each other.
I can't stress this enough. If the two of you are not committed to daily communication (email, phone calls, etc), it will be very difficult to make the relationship last. So, when you find yourself wasting away your time watching tv, or waiting in a busy doctor's office, give your person a ring. It will show that you really care about them.
3. Finally, talk with your partner rather early about what you both want in a relationship.
Do you only want to stay platonic and more on a friendly basis? Or, do you both want to delve further into love and possibly a long term relationship?
Most importantly, make sure what you both want out of the relationship. If only one wants a long term relationship, it could lead to a great level of dependency (the partner who wants the relationship will go to great lengths to get the other person to change his/her mind and maybe even become resentful if the love and infatuation are not reciprocated.
I hope this helped all of you. Good luck, and just remember that love may just be a click away!
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